Elaine Stritch On 30 Rock, Acting, And Loving Alec Baldwin

by Brian Gianelli
Dec 11th, 2008 | 10:59 AM | Comments 0

Tom Rose
Fancast.com

In 2007, at age 81, Elaine Stritch won an Emmy for her guest starring appearances on 30 Rock as Colleen Donaghy, the bossy, outspoken matriarch of the Donaghy clan, and eternal thorn in the side to son Jack (Alec Baldwin) as he climbs to the top of the NBC empire. Apparently, the role wasn’t much of a stretch.

That’s not surprising for a woman who’s been considered a consummate pro every step of the way in her long, illustrious career on the stage, in movies and now on television.

What is surprising is the manner she conducts an interview, speaking her mind, spitting out a profanity now and then and admitting she’s let her heart get in the way of her head when it comes to mothering her surrogate son.

Fancast talked to the actress about reprising her role on tonight’s episode and she delivered a bravura performance - as usual.

Elaine, your work on 30 Rock is so wonderful. How much fun is it to play with everybody there?

It’s never any fun to do a sitcom, no fun at all. Occasionally, yes, on a break you might have a passing word with somebody who just happens to be funny and you laugh, ho, ho, ho. Fine.

But once you’re back to work, nothing truer has ever been said than - I think it was Neil Simon who said dying is difficult, comedy is hard. And there’s nothing funny about being funny - nothing.

Would you ever want to do a sitcom full-time or would that just be way too much?

Well now on the other side of the coin is the tremendous satisfaction that you get out of doing comedy well. It’s more satisfying than Medea. It’s more satisfying than doing anything at all - to play a scene that is comedy and do it right.

There’s nothing like the satisfaction of that. So when I say - when I’m, you know, Dick Doom here about doing a sitcom, I have to add that if I do it well and I get in that car to go home, and over the bridge and back to The Carlisle - if I’ve done it right it’s just - there’s no joy that can compare with it except just the joy of being alive.

Maybe that’s second. But I can’t tell you. It’s just nothing can touch it. But also, I pity the driver that gets me after a day when I don’t think I’ve done well. Oh boy, that’s tough.

So, you know, I just try to have a non-alcoholic beer and cheer up, and tomorrow is another day and I’ll try again. But those days are tough. I take my work very seriously for this funny lady that I’m told I am.

Can you talk about your chemistry and your energy with Alec Baldwin, this Long Island boy? He’s such a mensch. And you’ve got a history with strong men in your life. I was wondering if you could talk about that?

Elaine Stritch: Yes I can. I did a show at the Tisch School. I don’t know what they call their school - drama school, because Alec Baldwin was a graduate. And they were celebrating him at Lincoln Center. And they asked me to come and sing for him. And I found a song that was, you know, sending him up which I knew he could take because he has great humor.

And I sang a song called Why Him? and it’s a comedy song, and it’s a wonderful song. And then I sang a love song.

Here was my problem with Alec - he - first of all, let me say this first and foremost as far as I deal with him, he is a really sensational — there’s no other word that is better than that — and particularly in Alec Baldwin’s case because he’s always in the new. He always will be. He always has been. He probably always will be. He is a sensational actor. So that covers a multitude of sins and it should, you know.

Acting is - oh my god, what a job. But let me tell you something, he’s go good at it. So that - you pay a big price for being talented; big, big, big price. Nobody ever gets away with it. Nobody ever gets away with being good. You understand what I’m saying?

Okay. A lot of these things sound like oxymorons. But my relationship with Alec Baldwin is - I wish that there was some kind of a committee that sort of devoted some time and tried to understand women who are attracted to men who have nothing to do with their age, because I’m old enough to be his mother and, that’s meant as a pun, but I guess it is because I play his mother.

And I never think about that. I love playing Alec Baldwin’s mother. But I don’t want to go home with Alec Baldwin. But I have to admit that I don’t care how old I am, I am really attracted to Alec Baldwin in every way, except probably the thing that both men and women are thinking about when they meet all the time. It seems like in our business and in our day, you know, sex rears its ugly head every five minutes.

But that doesn’t happen with me. But this strong male/female attractiveness to this guy, it’s just absolutely - I was about to say overpowering, but it isn’t. I can handle it. But I’m telling you, I’m so attracted to him. I just - but it seems weird - my age seems weird. Why am I this old? You know what I mean?

It’s not working right. The chemistry is wrong. What the hell is going on here? And we laugh together and work together very, very well. And I’m just crazy about him and I’ll never cause him any trouble because of these feelings that I have. I promise him from the bottom of my heart. But there it is. And I don’t care who knows it.

Before your husband, who was your favorite mistake in love?

A favorite mistake, that’s a very funny question. I mean it’s funny ha-ha. It’s not funny peculiar, it’s a very good question. You know, about my husband, Stephen Sondheim just wrote a musical called Road Show and there’s a song in it that knocked me out. It was so romantic and it was called The Best Thing That Ever Happened To Me. What you’re talking about is the worst thing that ever happened to me.

I’m trying to think. I think every single relationship that I ever had in my life meant something to me and I don’t think I’ve ever had a bad experience. It was terrific at the time. Looking back on it, all those relationships that I had that were out-to-lunch served their purpose because they made me realize how sensational my husband was. You know what I mean?

And I think it’s true in life, at the risk of getting very philosophical here, we need bum times in order to appreciate and live through the good times, because the good times are just as difficult as the bum times.

You mentioned your crush on Alec. How do you go into work everyday and play mother to this kind of - I don’t know, this beast of a man?

It’s because I’m exceptionally talented. That’s how I can do it and that’s how I get through everything. And I admit that. It’s high time I admitted it. Real talent comes out of real fear and I’m getting over my fear. But the one thing that I do very, very well, I’m a very good actress. So I can fool even Alec Baldwin. Okay?

That’s great.

But he’s got enough humor to understand what I’m talking about.

In terms of playing his mom, the dynamic is so funny, like the way you just are so crazy with him and he just hates you. He gets so upset by you and he just eats so much on the show.

Oh yes. And incidentally, Alec Baldwin should cut that out offstage. The only time anybody should allow him to eat at all is on camera because it doesn’t get a laugh offstage. It gets a laugh onstage. You understand what I mean? I want Alec to lose about 20 pounds.

Did you bring any of your own like kind of mothering skills into that performance?

I don’t have any mothering skills. I’ve never been one so I have nothing to draw from. But I certainly seem to be convincing some people that I’m his mother. I think I treat a lot of my friends like I’m their mother. Because I tend to be a little bossy. And that only comes from the fact that I’m not altogether sure of myself. And so I like to talk about mothers like that because mothers don’t mean to be so bossy to their kids.

But they’re kind of scared of their kids, so in order to hide the fear they come on very strong just like we all do in life. You know what I mean?

Definitely.

So mothers come in and say do as you’re told and they’re really scared to death of you.

Do you think you’ve actually instilled the real, true fear in Alec Baldwin?

In a way yes. I mean he - socially or when we ad-lib on a stage together, I just right away take on a bossy kind of persona because it’s a way of not letting him know that he makes me nervous and I’m attracted to him. You know what I mean? I’m not a bit backward about admitting the fact that I’m in love with Stephen Sondheim too, but I don’t want it ever to go anyplace, because I wouldn’t know what to do with it. You know what I mean?

And the same thing I feel about Alec Baldwin. I think I’m in love with, his talent. He is so talented that it’s scary and that’s a good word for him. And all Alec Baldwin has to do in his life to have a really good life is just easy does it. You know what I mean?

That’s the best advice anybody could ever give to Alec Baldwin. Easy does it. Take it easy. The cameras are going to be there tomorrow.

Enough about Alec. What’s it like working with Tina Fey?

Tina Fey is hard because I can’t nail her down. I haven’t nailed her down yet. I hope I have a chance in the future that’d give Tina and me an opportunity to really play a scene, really play a good comedy scene together because I have tremendous admiration for her. I think there’s a human being in there that none of us have even seen yet. Do you understand what I’m talking about?

Yeah, she’s not really revealing everything.

Because when someone is that funny and also a writer which is two talents kind of just growling at each other, you know, she can’t give herself completely to the material because it’s her material. So she’s got to figure that out. And she has. I’ve seen her do some very good work on 30 Rock. But maybe she thinks I’m judgmental about it because I’ve been doing it for so long.

But I’m not judgmental. I’m just fascinated. I’m fascinated with her talent. She has got talent all over the place, you know what I mean?

Sure, it’s just a great point.

All over the place. But her biggest problem, I’m sure she’d admit this in a minute, is, you know, zeroing it in, focusing it on one thing at a time.

Well that will come, I guess.

Of course. But let me tell you something, what’s she’s accomplishing day by day here in New York City in the television industry is really commendable, really - bravo, bravo, bravo.

In the series you tried to get them together. In this show, are you still trying to get Jack and Liz together?

No.

Not even a compunction on your part to see your little boy end up with the right woman?

No, I don’t think she wants to end up with anybody. If the truth be known, I think Jack’s at the bottom of every woman’s list, you know, they get jealous. You don’t think so? You don’t think women are jealous of their sons?

Now that you mention it, I think my mom may have been a little bit jealous, yeah.

Yeah, and then they get used to it and then they top the wife, and then they’re satisfied.

When you first decided to go into show business did you have any resistance from your family on that part?

No, not a bit. My family are very sophisticated and they had nothing to do with the theater. They had friends in the theater and they were sophisticated people so they took me to the theater. And I don’t know why, the stage just seemed to attract me because it was live and I love that.

But the idea of doing television is another challenge for me, you know. Acting is acting. I don’t see the difference. I play a part, I play a part. If a camera is on me, I make believe the camera is the audience. I’m not going to worry about that. I’m just going to play my part.

John Barrymore, who was a famous, very funny, brilliant actor - I’ll never forget the story about him when somebody asked him what acting was all about and he said “what’s the play and where’s the stage.” And that - you know, it comes down to as simple as that, and television is hard to do. Situation comedies, oh, they’re so hard to do. I’ve talked to Tina about this and we certainly agree that it’s awful hard to be funny in 19 minutes.

Do you still suffer from stage fright?

Yeah, sometimes. I think it all depends on how you feel, what your mental state is at that particular time, how much you’ve rehearsed. And I think that’s the most important thing in show business is rehearsal.

What kind of advice would you give to an actor who is starting out now?

Oh god, don’t ask me that. I don’t know. I don’t want to get dramatic about that. But just, you know, put one foot in front of the other foot and behave yourself. And, you know, be good to people and respect them, and all the good things. Just be a good guy and the talent will take care of itself.

I think behavior is very important in any form of the arts. And, you know, you show me a great artist and he’s got a problem 99 times out of 100, right? So they got to work on that, because nothing is any good unless you feel good. You know, that’s why I want Alec Baldwin to lose 25 pounds. Because he’ll feel better and he’ll even be funnier, if that’s possible.

How much fun is it to be a thorn in Jack’s side, like especially around Christmastime?

Oh, the sharper the thorn the deeper it goes, the more I like it. Absolutely. And then it’s a better scene, you know? Conflict is great acting material. You show me two people that are getting along and having a cup of tea, I don’t want to watch that on television.

Yeah, boring.

But show me a conflict and I’ll tune in, you know, especially if it’s funny. And Tina Fey makes it funny.

Right on.

You know, fighting is boring unless Tina gets her pen. I can have a rip-roaring fight with Alec Baldwin and the audience are in hysterics. So explain that.

Yeah, that’s true.

But what a healthy thing to see that the fighting is so ridiculous that it’s funny. So the message could be try getting along maybe, you know. I think if I got along with Alec Baldwin there’d still be something funny about it.

Will you be appearing in more episodes aside from Christmas episodes?

You tell me.

You have no idea?

No. But they have to get my availability. I’m glad you asked that because it’s a terrific job for me because I get to shoot in New York. I don’t have to go to La-La Land. So I can stay here at home and I don’t have to travel. And that’s attractive. But what I want them to do and what I want Tina to do is to write an episode that includes Nathan Lane and myself.

Oh, that’d be cool.

Because Nathan is my other son who makes me laugh. I mean all Nathan and I do is laugh offstage about the fact he’s playing my son but we’ve never had an opportunity to get to it. So I want a good script written about Alec and Nathan, and Tina and myself.

Yeah, I’d like to see that too.

Yeah, we’d be good.

Do you get to sing at all in this episode?

I did a little on the Christmas show. I sang Chestnuts Roasting by an Open Fire.

Oh cool.

But it’s a fantasy of Alec - of my son’s. He just sees me doing that. I don’t really do it. But in essence, the truth is I really do it. And I had a - not an acting problem, but a very interesting challenge as - a little tiny challenge as an actress. I did not sing like I sing. I sang like Alec Baldwin’s mother trying to sing.

Okay.

So I rather like that about myself. Good for you, Elaine, I said when I got off.

Cool. Now going back into your career, what it was like to work with Rock Hudson?

Oh great. Not a care in the world did I have, and not a brain in my head did I have either, because I thought it was perfectly acceptable to fall in love with Rock Hudson. And as far as I’m concerned, it was. You know, what did I know?

He was a huge star at the time, too.

He was a huge star and one of the best looking guys that ever lived, and a great kisser. I don’t know anything beyond that, but he certainly knew how to kiss you goodnight. So as far as I knew, he was perfectly all right. And gay meant, you know, a fun evening to me. That’s all.

I didn’t know what gay meant except that it was a fun evening. And so who knew? Who cared and who knew, or who knew and who cared?

Exactly. Just one more quick thing, when you were working on that film did you ever get to meet Ernest Hemingway?

I met Ernest Hemingway a long, long time ago in the Floridita Restaurant in Cuba. And I went to his house and we got stoned out of our minds, just with alcohol not the hard stuff.

Fair enough.

The hardest drug I ever took was, you know, Dewar’s Red Label. But we went to his house and we had the best time. I wish I could remember more of it. That’s one of the joys of being sober. If you have good fortune in your life and you get to meet people like Ernest Hemingway, you’re there for it. You understand what I mean?

Yeah. Exactly, yes.

That’s the best thing about sobriety. For the last 23 years, I know everything that I’ve done - repeat, everything.

Well yeah, that’s a good thing.

t’s a good thing most of the time. Some of the things I don’t even want to remember sober.

What drew you to the role on 30 Rock?

The phone call from my agent. That’s about it.

It was an immediate yes, you’ll do it?

Oh absolutely. Who wouldn’t? First of all, for someone who works in the theater most of the time, most of her life, I get to stay home which is something that sounds kind of funny coming from an actress.

But most actresses love to travel and go different places, and blah, blah, blah. I don’t. But that has something to do with my age. And I’d rather stay in New York and to do a series in New York is, you know, made in heaven. It’s great.

What’s next in your career? What else do you have going on right now?

I just got back from a tour. Every once in awhile I do a few nights here and there of Elaine Stritch at Liberty, the one woman show that I do. So I do that occasionally. That’s about it. That’s about all I’m doing at the moment.

And I just finished the Christmas 30 Rock, and hopefully I’m going to do more than the Christmas shows. I hope so. I really don’t enjoy it, but it’s very satisfying as far as work is concerned. If I can get a good 30 Rock in me, it’s good news.

For me, I mean, because the hardest thing in the world to do, is to do a sitcom and to be truly funny in 19 minutes. This is hard stuff to do. So if you accomplish it, it’s joyful. It’s really joyful. I hear the Christmas show is really good, so that makes me so happy I can’t tell you.

So would you say it’s harder than sustaining a live show by yourself?

Oh yes. I mean when I go out and do Elaine Stritch at Liberty, physically it’s, you know, it’s hard and it’s a lot of movement, and a lot of singing and it taxes you.

But as far as satisfaction is concerned, if I can get through a sitcom, I can do anything. Because I don’t care whether actors want to admit it or not. At the moment, it’s the hardest form of comedy. That’s my opinion.

She should know!

Don’t miss Elaine Stritch when she returns to 30 Rock tomorrow night on NBC. You can bet we’ll be watching on Fancast.